This is a serious post.
I’ve been looking at girls lately and wondering why, why can’t you be comfortable without all the makeup, without all the hair, without all the clothes. Why do you need to be someone you’re not. I swear half the girls I’ve come across, date someone, and completely change to form to that guy. It’s so weird. Be yourself. I also see so many girls have there close cliche of friends, and then dabble with alcohol and drugs and see all these other people doing it, and gravitate towards those crutches because there are people around, and they feel like they have more friends when they are drunk/high and then realize they are so lonely, but don’t understand why. I can guarantee I will get some people asking me if this post is about them, or pretty much flipping out on me, but this isn’t about any one person, and say whatever you want. This post goes for guys too though, stop selling yourself out to be scene a certain way. If you don’t really like hardcore, then don’t listen to it because it seems cool now or because I listen to it and were friends. Listen to whatever the fuck you liked before, I certainly won’t judge you for it. Over it.
Aww, I really needed to see something like this tonight.
this made me smile. I agree with him 10000000000%
but at the same time, it’s hard for us girls to stop trying to change ourselves when all we see are guys dating those cliche ‘hot’ girls. We assume that guys would never take us as we truly are. 18 years of never having a boyfriend has pretty much proved that for me.
(via peeta--bread)